Reality sucks

Facing reality is the worst phrase ever, it comes with a lot of changes and sacrifices so ‘facing reality’, reality sucks.

No one ever wants to be told they have to live a certain way and do things differently; in-fact if it was possible we would do whatever we want whenever. But it doesn’t work like that some will always be there to rectify your mistakes or either order you to do it their way.

I know personally and somehow it makes you feel stupid and angry sometimes, but you may never see what they see or understanding their point of view.

Having to correct a small mistake is one thing but to change your lifestyle for someone is something else.

I do not understand people who would expect you to round up your entire existence for them, it’s the same reason we have high rate of suicides, because once you do as they wish they get fed up later in time and while you have done everything for them, now when you reject them they see no reason to live ‘without out you’ they cannot find their independence since you took it, you take their life as well. 

Facing reality who is the cause of death, would you forgive yourself for an indirect murder? What do you think God thinks about you, for interest sake I went through the bible and it says:

 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).

Now for you have partake in ruining Gods plan, how would you feel, I mean have considered why some people kill themselves? 

 It’s the same motive a person decides to tell the whole world about other people’s problems and personal lives. How do you begin to disclose in a social network about what other person does in their own little closet or maybe it’s your assumptions?

Do you even recognise the division and delusions you’re causing or all you wonder and dream about is you being popular for the wrong reasons.

 This situation is worsened when you write people’s names. For Christ sake what’s going on your humanity, why should we all feel that we have been hit by a volcano because you decided to ‘spill the beans’.

People who are our day by day murders are those we laugh with daily, those who destroy our friendship and families in the name of telling the truth. Facing reality honesty is not a 30seconds game it needs you to consider all angles and conditions.

To make state inferior you drag the Lords name in your opinion to the mud, mentioning his name in things that are going to destroy other people live is not what God would intend to do and I do not think you being the ‘mouth piece ‘wanna be’ would make you look any better you just as twice as horrible.

People say I would rather be hurt with the truth than be happy with lies, facing reality we lying to ourselves.

 When you have personal problems deal with them, do not write unnecessary notes.  Nobody was made perfect and no one will ever be.

Why do we have to live happily by demeaning and threatening other people? How do you sleep at night when you know someone might think of homicide because of you?

But what can we really do about that, we just have to accept there are people like that and move on with our lives, pray to God that they may never achieve to whatever evil or dirt they are think.

 But mostly pray for them to see the light and change their manner of doing things. 

For all I can say watch what you are doing you may never who has a cameo and will bring disrepute over your life.

Mark 11:25 And whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone, so that your Father also who is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.”

Everything happens for a reason so they say and it’s all going to be alright they convince themselves, facing reality it things you could be the reason and it will take time to be alright, this is not some fairy world is earth and facing reality it sucks.

Ncumisa U Magadla